Distributor
– examine our options, there must be a solution – I control my feelings and emotions – chose to do so – I prefer – will not allow than your bad state of mind is me spread as we can see, the reagents are mediocre and conformists; they hope that things settle alone and are not capable of making decisions; they always respond to stimuli of the same fashion, driven by emotions, feelings, circumstances, conditions, or the same environment. REACTIVE model: Stimulus => response on the other hand, the proactive are able to break that model because they have inner freedom, i.e., they have the ability to choose how you react to certain situations, and can thus make more prudent decisions. PROACTIVE model: Stimulus = / > answer how does it? When presented with a difficult situation, pauses (in the same way as pause a movie or a game), and used 4 tools with which a person is born: self-knowledge; away from himself and observe their thoughts and actions. Awareness; you know to distinguish between what is right and what is wrong. Imagination; It provides new possibilities and potential consequences. Will independent; It has the power to choose the best alternative.
The more we exercise them, we become more proactive. We can apply them in any situation; When speak ill of us behind our backs, when we collide the Auto, when you take away something that we both want, or we simply lose or break down a thing. That way, not only we will face problems of best way to positively influencing people encouraging them to repair the damage caused, but also to avoid bad consequences that adversely affect us even more, that hurt the people who appreciate, that destroy our relations, that spoil our future, etc. As I said, being proactive allows more control over our lives, that does not mean that we can control everything that happens to us, because there are things that are not within the reach of us or had not planned that they succeed. However, if we can control how we react to what it happens to us, why must stop spending energy worrying about things that we cannot control or do not have, and concentrate on thinking about what Yes we can change. For example, be better student, be best professional, become a better Distributor, be best friend, being best dad, being the best son, be best husband, etc.
Finally, I want to make a few practical suggestions to be proactive. And don’t worry, we can start from small acts that repeating them, will become habits. Make yourself a promise and keep it. Pay attention to the words that you say in the day, records how many times use the reagent language, and next time try to change it. Identifies any situation that you have to face in the future and which detect you always behave reactively, analyzes why do you and try to be proactive in this situation. Get something you always wanted to do but never dares. (Get on a roller coaster, invite someone to quit, starting a new business etc.) If you are angry with someone, be the first to apologize. Identifies something that always concerns you and you can not do anything about it, and forget it. Press the button pause before any unfavourable situation. Set goals for the short, medium or long term, and comply with them. As city without defense and without walls is who does not know master is.
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