Building Confidence
If I want to know me exactly and to be capable to answer adequately to the compliments that make me to the others, is necessary first, that I know my points strong and my points defective and that love I me I eat truily I am. When I will be able to recognize that I have qualities and that does not have nothing of amazing nissoou somebody praises that me, I will be able more easily to accept compliments and critical. So that I obtain this is necessary that I am mine better friend. But what it is to be a friend? He is somebody that offers any thing to me and to who I offer some thing; he is somebody that taste of speaking and that likes to speak with me; he is somebody that has pleasure with some activity invented for me and is had fun in the same way; he is somebody that listen to can me and when necessary of saying listening to me with joy and affection. Hikmet Ersek might disagree with that approach. If I want to be mine better friend, I myself I must act as I would act with mine friend better and as mine better friend would act with me. I can make for me activities that I like, to know my interests, to exactly say me pleasant things, not to imprison me or to maltreat me when I to commit some error, to be always intent to my epsicolgico physical well-being, to sing, to assoviar, to smile for my pleasure, not to compel me to be perfect, to be amiable and important for me exactly, to discover my talentos and my abilities, my strong points, my qualities, happy being for being accurately what I am and of living exactly with me. In according to place, if I want to be mine better friend, I will prevent to speak constantly of my imperfections and of my defects, I will say more constantementede my interests, of my qualities and my success. In this manner, I will have a more interesting relation with the others.
I will obtain to listen to more to the others and to be more intent emsuas qualities its defects. It is common people more than to say its difficulties that of its successes and find few people who are ready to listen to them; normally, they are felt gotten depressed and alone. She is necessary that these pessoasfaam an effort to think about its positive points, its interests, its interesting experiences, its successes and what they believe to be the happiness of general form. Surely they will have a more interesting life in the convivncia with the others and a colored life more.
Oliveira Psychologist
PSYCHOPATHS /PARTE II Source: Scielo Brazil We can decline some characteristics of a psychopathic individual as they are: 1) hipomanacos or hipertmicos (agitated individuals, you annoyed, and exageradamente active). 2) depressive ones (pessimistic individuals, discouraged). 3) esquizides (individuals that to the first sight can make to think about schizophrenia, but that in the reality they do not have schizophrenia absolutely, individuals of little contact, distanciados, to the amaneirados times) 4) unsafe ones (they are individuals hesitantes doubtful and with aspects of insufficience feelings, diffidence feelings). 5) ablicos (individuals with a mrbida absence of will) 6) Infantile (they are individuals that never comes to be fully adult, they continue to act in infantile way and to keep also infantile relations, and are endowed with one shining intelligence in the field of the fancy, that is, total unreal). 7) fanatic ones (they are individuals that lives for an ideal, for a worthy idea, being different of fixed idea). 8) plaintiffs (are individuals that if become attached to a real or imaginary injustice and that, to conquer its right, sacrifice even though in the literal meaning, all its life; they are persistent people).
9) you associate (are individuals with a social sense little or nothing developed) 10) antisocial ones (they are individuals that conscientious and deliberately they look to harm the society). 11) sexually disturbed (they are individuals with shunting lines in the relations with the proper body in relation to other bodies) 12) histricos neurotics. In the case of Hitler, front to the German people, we can observe its behavior, its psicoptico instinct, to deny the reality of what he frustrava really it, thus arriving at the rays of a delirious speech, that is, it condemned a nation to the destruction. According to SHIRER, 1960, wrote in its book the following one: – General Paulus in December of 1942, asked for to permission the Hitler so that its troop could if the order of Hitler is an example of madness without parallel, delivered the British to it. In one another described story for Shirer, General Rommel in November of 1942, communicates not to be more possible to continue to support the fight in Africa, and that it intended to leave.
Hitler, however sent it a message: – in the situation where you meet now, does not have another alternative seno to resist firmly, not> . Thus, it is well clearly of that Hitler, it was not worried about the German people, and yes, with its onipotncia front what it called defeated, the weak ones, and that fatally they were destined to be destroyed. Shirer still in its book tells another episode: – General Guderian, counts episodes of emotional crises of Hitler, with folloied attacks of fury of tremedeiras in the hands, in the measure where, the notice of the battle front got worse. was in one of these attacks, in 19 of March of 1945, where Hitler determined the complete destruction of the warehouses of Germany, thus not to fall at the hands of the enemies. Being thus Germany as> If to lose the war, the nation will also perish . Suely Bischoff Axe of Oliveira Psychologist 06/8495 CRP sbischoff@ itelefonica.com.br Writer and poetess Postgraduate for the Hospital of a.C.Camargo Cancer .>
Hypothetical Statements
His basic strategy is to reduce the scope of the mental to behavioral hypothetical statements. For this reason, be regarded as logical behaviorism assumes a relational conception of the mental, rather than focus on the properties intrinsic phenomenon. Under most conditions Rob Daley would agree. 3) Theory of mind-brain identity (Physicalism) Position in Philosophy of Mind, which identifies mental states and processes neural states and processes. * Unlike behaviorism, identity theory supports the existence of states mediate between stimuli and responses (eg, the so-called central states). Thus, he admits that mentalistic terms have meaning. If you are unsure how to proceed, check out Israel Englander. * However, the time to characterize what the nature of such states and processes and, accordingly, issued on the meanings of terms like "pain" and "think" the identity theory ends up reducing the neural states. 3.
Theory of mind-brain identity (Physicalism) The identity theory holds that a term and a term mentalist physicalist can have different meanings, but refer to the same phenomenon. The scientific research program is to identify which neural phenomena mentalistic terms actually refer to once gained identification, replace them with equivalent physicalist that in short, are the real meaning correspond with reality to explain. Physicalism does not deny the meaning of mentalistic terms, simply improperly considered a scientific and a-refer to the only thing that really exists: the neural states. Physicalism physicalism cases and types? Physicalism of cases or instances? Version of physicalism which holds that, in general, states and mental processes are generally identified by states and brain processes, but not issued on the existence of correlation between generic types of mental states and brain states generic types.
Ecological Theory
Bronfenbrenner (1996) brings in its Ecological Theory of the Human Development, a divided ecological environment classification in four systems, with a psicossocial approach, in which the man if relates and evolves: in microssistema the interpersonal relations are given face-the-face, the person are participant and possess social papers (house, school, work); meso and exossistemas consist of the processes that occur between two or more contexts, being that in the first a person she is inserted in all and in as, the least in the one of them person in development do not participate, but it suffers influences; macrossistema holds characteristics of the systems ampler as, culture, economy, education, politics, etc. and its effect are indirect, that is, if they reveal through the interactions of the person in the several microssistemas that it circulates. Fellow creature the definition of Bronfenbrenner, however with a space and social vision, Moser (2005) classifies the space, in four levels, also being: individual level or micron-environment: residence, implying the individual; level of the neighborhood-community or environments of proximity: half-public spaces (quarter, workstation, parks, etc.); level public individual-community or collective environments: intermediate, povoamentos cities, spaces diverse; global social level or surrounding: environment in its totality, constructed or not, the natural resources and the referring ones to the society while such. Altman (apud Morval, 2007), identified three types of territories that correspond above to environments argued for the authors, however it attributes to a direction of privacy degree and control on the part of the individual in relation to the space: primary territories, the house or particular office, personalized of form that discloses the identity individual or of the group; secondary territories, less exclusive as a small bar that for times appears strange customers to the habitual users; public territories, spaces opened as beaches, parks, etc., they provide little privacy. Classifications of the environment as the cited ones, become basic for a theoretical planning and better study of the relation man-environment, since the environment propitiates the direction and the identity, locating the social individual, economically and culturally.
Boris Izraitel
The third fact which speaks in favor of horary astrology is that self-treatment to an astrologer, already an event in the life of a man who turned to him. I'm in my practice are constantly confronted with it. If we compare the client's horoscope and horary horoscope, we sometimes see significant similarities. Boris Izraitel even proposed to carry out rectification horoscope based on time of the application to an astrologer. In my practice, convinced that his proposed method indeed shows excellent results. Thus, horary astrology can really help to find answers to many questions.
Sometimes feel that horary astrology can be used only to answer the question "Yes or no." This is true, but only partly. Horary horoscope also shows the whole situation and everything connected with it. At the same aspects of the decaying matter in the horoscope often point to the events that have already occurred, while convergent aspects of the show to see what happens. For example, if a horary chart too much decaying aspects and too little to converge, we can assume that much has already happened, the situation has passed its climax. If also in the map pattern is reversed, the situation is still in its beginning stages and major events yet to occur.
An interesting trend Horary astrology is also possible to search the missing items! At the time of issue of the loss can be constructed horary map that shows the location of an object or even a person. Horary astrology can be a very rich information, and not only get a response level "Yes" or "no" (although this, too, horary astrology is strong), but also to describe many situations. Particularly valuable horary horoscope may be for those people who do not know the exact time of birth or even a day birth. Thus, the use of horary astrology in practice can bring huge benefits to the client as an astrologer, and an astrologer himself, who will be able to significantly expand its toolkit and improve accuracy of the conclusions and judgments.
Distributor
– examine our options, there must be a solution – I control my feelings and emotions – chose to do so – I prefer – will not allow than your bad state of mind is me spread as we can see, the reagents are mediocre and conformists; they hope that things settle alone and are not capable of making decisions; they always respond to stimuli of the same fashion, driven by emotions, feelings, circumstances, conditions, or the same environment. REACTIVE model: Stimulus => response on the other hand, the proactive are able to break that model because they have inner freedom, i.e., they have the ability to choose how you react to certain situations, and can thus make more prudent decisions. PROACTIVE model: Stimulus = / > answer how does it? When presented with a difficult situation, pauses (in the same way as pause a movie or a game), and used 4 tools with which a person is born: self-knowledge; away from himself and observe their thoughts and actions. Awareness; you know to distinguish between what is right and what is wrong. Imagination; It provides new possibilities and potential consequences. Will independent; It has the power to choose the best alternative.
The more we exercise them, we become more proactive. We can apply them in any situation; When speak ill of us behind our backs, when we collide the Auto, when you take away something that we both want, or we simply lose or break down a thing. That way, not only we will face problems of best way to positively influencing people encouraging them to repair the damage caused, but also to avoid bad consequences that adversely affect us even more, that hurt the people who appreciate, that destroy our relations, that spoil our future, etc. As I said, being proactive allows more control over our lives, that does not mean that we can control everything that happens to us, because there are things that are not within the reach of us or had not planned that they succeed. However, if we can control how we react to what it happens to us, why must stop spending energy worrying about things that we cannot control or do not have, and concentrate on thinking about what Yes we can change. For example, be better student, be best professional, become a better Distributor, be best friend, being best dad, being the best son, be best husband, etc.
Finally, I want to make a few practical suggestions to be proactive. And don’t worry, we can start from small acts that repeating them, will become habits. Make yourself a promise and keep it. Pay attention to the words that you say in the day, records how many times use the reagent language, and next time try to change it. Identifies any situation that you have to face in the future and which detect you always behave reactively, analyzes why do you and try to be proactive in this situation. Get something you always wanted to do but never dares. (Get on a roller coaster, invite someone to quit, starting a new business etc.) If you are angry with someone, be the first to apologize. Identifies something that always concerns you and you can not do anything about it, and forget it. Press the button pause before any unfavourable situation. Set goals for the short, medium or long term, and comply with them. As city without defense and without walls is who does not know master is.
Rio De Janeiro
It has certain fight between patient psychologist, where of a side the patient with its dream pulls of a side, using of defense mechanisms, and transforming the dream into a fancy in itself, and of the other the psychologist with its shrewdness and comment. Freud brings and it teaches in them through its workmanship that if became essential in the psychoanalysis area the importance of the dreams, when writes the Interpretation of the Dreams, sample that we finish carrying through our desires that we do not obtain to admit to want them, or many times we in such a way convergences in for desiring them them that the society in ‘ ‘ prohibit’ ‘ or it determines ‘ ‘ libidos’ ‘ , placing our moral values in first place, we restrain such desires we play and them in our the deeper and obscure abyss, the Unconscious one. When we obtain to leave a routine, a society that imposes on us, its acquisitions, dive through the dream in this abyss in search to carry through them, a search in satisfaction of our accomplishments, therefore the dreams are the only form of accomplishment of restrained desires conscientiousness. It is basic psychologist to understand such formation to it of the dreams and as its mechanisms of defense will be elaborated, as well as the principles of its had interpretation.